Monday, March 5, 2012

Where Have All the Cowboys Gone?

Photo Credit: Simon Santos, owner of video48.blogspot.com


"Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers."  (~ 1 Peter 3:7 NIV)
 
  
Where Have All the Cowboys Gone?
Paula Cole, 1996
lyrics HERE

Sometime in the past, a woman envisioned a happy marriage with the man of his dreams-- a sort of a hero. When she found him, she naturally said 'Yes' to marriage. Now it's too late; she discovers that she is married to an irresponsible and insensitive man.

The lines "I will do the laundry if you pay all the bills" and "I will raise the children if you pay all the bills" seem to indicate that the woman was compelled to look for ways to cover family expenses sadly  leading to the neglect of her domestic and child-rearing responsibilities. It is not because her husband's income is not enough but because he squanders much on his vices:


We finally sold the chevy
When we had another baby
And you took the job in Tennessee
You made friends at the farm
And you joined them at the bar
Almost every single day of the week


And at home, the wife feels neglected:

"I am wearing my new dress tonight
But you don't, but you don't even notice me"


This wife is not perfect for sure. It sounds to me that she is considering divorce ("Say our goodbyes") which in her case is not biblically justifiable. Yet the ones I would like to address in this post are my fellow brothers, especially the husbands out there. In 1 Peter 3:7, husbands are instructed to be considerate to the wives' physical, emotional and spiritual needs. Furthermore, husbands should treat them with honor and respect.

Photo Credit: Simon Santos, owner of  fpj-daking.blogspot.com
We can never be Leon Guererros or Daniel Barrions, but by the Spirit of God, we can all pursue biblical masculinity.

Monday, February 13, 2012

Winning the War Against Worldliness (Colossians 3:1-4)


What is the best strategy to fight worldliness?
Shall I smash my TV set into pieces?
Shall I retreat to the boondocks or hide in a cave and live as a hermit?
Shall I live in a box to insulate my self from the world outside?

I was in isolation from the outside world when I was in my mother's womb. Before there were any external influence upon me, I was already sinful from the moment of conception.

In the verses that preceded Colossians 3, it appears that in the pursuit of godliness, some teachers enforced some external rules. It may be some form of asceticism, that is the practice of denying the physical body of comfort and pleasures to achieve spiritual goals. It has penetrated the church and so Paul writes to instruct the Christians about true spirituality. The apostle told them that asceticism has no value in combating the indulgence of flesh (2:23). In place of these practices, Paul prescribes two imperatives which are grounded on two realities.

THE IMPERATIVES

1. SEEK for heavenly things (verse1)
Seeking the things of God should be our one single passion. The Greek word is zetew. It means to "try to learn the location of something". It conveys the idea of moving from place to place in the search process. It is the very word used in Mark 1:37. Jesus left very early in the morning while it was still dark. Nobody knew where he had gone. His disciples made every effort to search for him everywhere and when they finally found him, they exclaimed "Everyone is looking for you".

I was on board a public jeepney one morning. Though eavesdropping is not a habit of mine, the volume of the woman's voice four feet away compelled me to sing Alanis Morissette's opening line: "I had no choice but to hear you".

She worked hard for years for the education of his son. Yet on graduation day, she learned that her son's name was excluded from the list of the candidates for graduation. Her son failed to secure the signatures necessary for his graduation clearance. A few hours away before the commencement ceremonies, she took the clearance sheet and started to search for the required signatories. This San Carlos City resident must now go to places where she has never been before. Her search led her to the island of Salapingao and two other baranggays outside the city of Dagupan.

Nothing else mattered for that woman that day. She did not touch the laundry. She left the kitchen dirty. Earning income was far from her mind. The blanks in the clearance sheet must be filled. A few minutes before the commencement ceremonies, a handwritten entry was made in the list of the candidates for graduation. It was her son's name.

In order to resist our propensity for worldly matters, Paul prescribes that we should seek the things of God with such a vigor as this. Seek heavenly things as if nothing else matters.

2. THINK About heavenly things (verse 2)
The Louw and Nida lexicon defines the Greek word phrone as "to employ one's faculty for thoughtful planning, with emphasis upon the underlying disposition or attitude". Your thought life is an essential area to be conquered if you are to win the war against the indulgence of the flesh. Evil thoughts are not fought by restraining your brain's ability to think. Rather, one must actively involve the mind to meditate on the things which are eternally holy and beautiful.

THE REALITIES

I have said earlier that the two imperatives are grounded on two realities. The first reality we shall consider is:

1. Our Union with Christ
Col.3:1 "Since, then, you have been raised with Christ"
Col. 3:3 " For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God."

There is a mystical union between Christ and his followers. We are united with him in his death and resurrection. Paul has already stated this earlier in 2:12-13. The result of this is that his followers died to sin. The old man that used to be a slave of sin is already dead, therefore is now free. Paul says in Gal. 2:20, he has been crucified with Christ. He no longer lives. The only life he is living is the life of Christ living in him. When the incarnate Christ was on the surface of the earth, nothing else mattered to him but to do the will of the Father (John 4:34). If Christ is indeed living in us, we will must have the same mindset. The good news is our union with Christ is not something we are still working on. It is a present reality that we should live with accordingly.

The second reality by which the earlier imperatives are built is:

2. Our Glorious Future
Col.3:4-- "When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory."

Christ will return and when he appears, we will see him in all his splendor. In Titus 2:13, Paul describes this appearing as "glorious". Yet it is not only him who will appear in glory. Colossians 3:4 says there will be a change in us. We will appear with him in glory.

If I'll give you a 3x5 card and ask you to scribble all the undesirable things in me, both physical and spiritual, perhaps you will answer back, "Bro. Manny, this 3x5 card will not be enough for my long list". But when the day comes when I shall appear with my Lord, I will be changed within a twinkling of an eye. All things inglorious in me will suddenly be replaced by glorious things. All things disgraceful in me will suddenly be replaced with honorable things (1 John 3:2)

How does this reality serve as a weapon in fighting worldliness? 1 John 3:3 says "Everyone who has this hope in him purifies himself, just as he is pure."
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Monday, January 23, 2012

May Lugar ba ang Feng Shui sa Buhay-Kristiyano?

May dragon dance.
May bigayan ng tikoy
May mga bati Kung Hei Fat Choi!
Chinese New Year na nga.

Karaniwan ring itinatampok sa panahong ito ay ang paniniwala sa Feng Shui. Ito ay nakabatay sa prinsipyo na may positibong enerhiya (chi) na naghahatid ng suwerte sa ating buhay. Ito ay nagdadala sa atin ng tagumpay, kapayapaan, kasaganaan, kalusugan at kasiyahan. Ang positibong enerhiya na ito ay dapat palapitin at padaluyin ng malaya sa iyong tahanan kung nais mong maging maganda ang iyong buhay. Kailangang alam mo rin iugnay ang puwersang ito sa iba pang mga prinsipyo tulad ng Yin Yang, at Wu Xing (limang elemento).

Kailangang alam mo kung ano ang mga palamuti na iyong isasabit, wastong mga kristal, wastong kulay ng kurtina, tamang hugis at direksyon ng hagdanan, kung saan dapat nakatapat ang pintuan, kung saan ang tamang puwesto ng kalan, kung ilan ang tamang bilang ng mga upuan at marami pang iba.

At kung sakaling ikaw ay nahihilo sa mga kumplikadong prinsipyo ng feng shui, maaari kang sumangguni sa mga feng shui expert. Ilan sa mga kliyente ng feng shui experts ay mga malalaking korporasyon, mga matitinik na negosyante, mga batikang pulitiko at mga sikat na artista.

Sa isang panayam, sinabi ng isang nagtitinda ng mga palamuting pam-feng shui, sabi niya: “Puro science na kasi ang nasa isip ng mga tao ngayon. Pero subukan lang ninyo. Wala namang mawawala.”

Sa paskil na ito, maghahain ako ng tatlong dahilan kung bakit ako tutol sa feng shui; at ang tatlong ito'y hindi dahil sa puros science ang nasa isip ko (mahina nga ako sa subject na 'yan eh). Ang mga pinakamahahalagang bagay sa 'kin ay mga katotohanang supernatural tulad ng Trinidad, Virgin Birth, muling-pagkabuhay, muling pagbabalik ni Kristo, at ang langit bilang walang hanggang destinasyon ng mga mananampalataya.

Unang batayan ng aking pagtutol
Hindi totoo na walang mawawala kung susubukan natin ang feng shui. Ang pagsandal ng ating buhay sa mga gawaing may kinalaman sa okultismo ay hindi kinalulugdan ng Diyos. Sa pagpasok ng mga Israelita sa Lupang Pangako, ang bilin sa kanila ay huwag tularan ang kanilang mga karatig-bansa sa mga gawaing katulad nito.

Tandaan na kapag ang Diyos ay nagbigay ng utos, ito ay para sa ikabubuti ng tao.(Deut. 28:1-2). At kapag may ipinagbawal siya, ito ay para ilayo tayo sa kapahamakan. Alam na alam ng mga sinaunang magulang natin na sina Adan at Eba ang ibig kong sabihin (Gen.3:16-19).

Ikalawang batayan ng aking pagtutol
Sa Feng Shui, binibitiwan natin ang ating pagtitiwala sa isang personal na Diyos at ang kapalit nito'y pagsandal sa isang impersonal na puwersa.

Dahil personal ang Diyos ng Bibliya, maaari tayong magkaroon ng relasyon sa kanya. Personal ang pagsinta niya sa atin; personal rin ang pag-ibig natin sa kanya. Maaari natin siyang kausapin at ibulong sa kanya ang laman ng ating mga damdamin. Ito ay mga bagay na hindi mo maaaring gawin sa isang puwersa-- tulad na lamang ng kuryente. Hindi ka maaaring magkaroon ng relasyon sa kuryente. Hindi ka maaaring ibigin ng kuryente. Ganyan na ganyan sa Feng Shui; ang ating buhay sa kasalukuyan at kinabukasan ay ipinagkakatiwala natin sa impersonal na chi na ni walang batayan sa bibliya.

Ikatlong batayan ng aking pagtutol
Ang konsepto ng malas at suwerte ay pagtanggi sa biblikal na pagpapakilala ng Diyos bilang makapangyarihan sa lahat, na siyang may kontrol ng mga bagay-bagay at mga pangyayari sa ating daigdig. Kay Kristo nakasalalay ang kaayusan at pag-iral ng lahat ng mga bagay (Col. 1:17; Heb. 1:3).

Kung ikaw ay tumutubo sa negosyo, ang tawag ng sanlibutan ay suwerte. Kapag ikaw ay nalulugi, ang tawag ng sanlibutan ay malas. Subalit sa mga anak ng Diyos, walang minamalas. Wala rin namang sinusuwerte. Sila ay mga pinagpala. Sapagkat mayroong Diyos na kumikilos sa lahat ng mga bagay at pangyayari upang magdulot ng mabubuting bagay sa buhay ng mga umiibig sa Diyos at mga tinawag ayon sa kanyang layunin. (Roma 8:28)

Sa mga anak ng Diyos...
… maging ang pagkalugi ay hindi malas
… maging ang gutom ay hindi malas
….maging ang pag-uusig ay hindi malas
… maging ang mga bayo at lindol ay hindi malas
… maging ang kanser at iba pang mga karamdaman ay hindi malas.

Bagkus, ang lahat ng mga ito ay instrumento ng Diyos upang hubugin sa wangis ni Kristo ang mga mananampalataya (Roma 8:29)
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Thursday, January 19, 2012

Joseph Prince and Benny Hinn AGAINST the Inspired Narrator

"Naked I came from my mother's womb,
    and naked I will depart.
  The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away;
    may the name of the LORD be praised."
(Job 1:21)

Joseph Prince's Commentary:
"Thinking that God was the source of his problems and not knowing that it was actually Satan who had come against him, he said, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return there. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” Such a statement seems to honor God, but in reality, it reveals an erroneous view of our heavenly Father." (source)

Benny Hinn's Commentary:
"You know what? We've said it this a million times and it's not even scriptural-- all because of Job: 'The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Blessed be the name of the Lord." I have news for you: that is not Bible, that's not Bible. The Lord giveth and never taketh away. And just because he said, 'Blessed be the name,' he was just being religious and being religious don't mean you're right." (TBN, Nov. 3, 1990)



The Inspired Narrator's Commentary:

"In all this, Job did not sin by charging God with wrongdoing." (Job 1:21)